Loving Couple's Critical Care Lists - Alex Shaw Power Feng Shui

Loving Couple’s Critical Care Lists

If you are in a love affair or relationship you need this list. God bless you in your love and life.

Loving Respect,
Rev Alex Shaw
A/K/A Alexandra Shaw

Sidebar: I once ended a “No Talking 2 week stand-off “ with my husband by simply saying “I accept.”

“You accept What?”

“I accept your apology.”

“I did Not Apologize!”

“Of course u did. U were too proud to say it aloud but your actions spoke it in volume.”

He looked shocked, outraged & then we hysterically laughed and had Makeup Sex.

God is a huge fan of Makeup Sex. After all HE did give us sex as a gift of love.

In 1989 as a Pentecostal Prude I would have never dared to say that out loud. Now at 71 it is simply time to speak truths.

Please expect many “Truths” from me in the coming future months. God led me to an Epiphany yesterday. What a miracle!

He told me “One never knows how long one has upon the earth. Speak NOW or forever hold your peace”

I am choosing to share my experiences before it is as they say in church “Eternally Too Late!”

If I offend u, God bless you.

If I don’t and you have a sense of humor about God, and Life and Yourself, I invite you to share my journey.

As my departed mother Janelle loved to say. “We do not live in the sweet by and by. We live in the nasty Now & Now.”

May God & Jesus lead the way to my Golden Years as they would have it. Amen!

REV. ALEX SHAW SUGGESTS CREATING LISTS FOR A COUPLE TRYING TO SAVE THEIR LOVE & RELATIONSHIP.

Long ago I learned that each couple needs lists of topics. Each couple should work on making these lists Together IF THEY WANT TO SAVE THEIR LOVE & RELATIONSHIP.

1. Things you agree on.

2. Things you do NOT agree on & you can still respect each other’s differences of opinions.

3. Things you do NOT agree on and REFUSE TO DISCUSS BECAUSE OPINIONS SELDOM CHANGE AND YOU LOVE EACH OTHER AND IT SIMPLY IS NOT WORTH IT TO LOSE THE LOVE OVER A DIFFERENCE OF OPINIONS, AND ALL THAT YOU HAVE BUILT BETWEEN YOU. TRUST IS SO HARD TO FIND AND EASILY LOST OVER SIDING AGAINST EACH OTHER.

NOTE: IF U CANNOT AGREE ON THINGS, AND ARE CHOOSING TO KEEP THE LOVE MAKE A NEW AGREEMENT THAT IF:

A. It happened before today and it is a good memory, then we agree in the future to discuss it as a LOVING MEMORY.

B. It happened before today and it is hurtful, shameful to one or the other, demeaning or vicious in any way and would cause pain to bring it up again, then we agree to NEVER MENTION IT AGAIN FROM THIS TIME FORWARD.

4. AGREE TO DISAGREE AND LOVE EACH OTHER BECAUSE THE LOVE IS THE MOST IMPORTANT FOUNDATION OF ANY RELATIONSHIP.

IF it is worth it to you to keep the LOVE then ADD # 3 & # $4 to your agreements between you.
Both of you are WORTH IT.

AGREE TO PRAY FOR EACH OTHER TOGETHER & SEPARATELY.

WITH MEN, often there is an amount of pride and they find it hard to back down so IF WE LOVE THEM, IT HAS TO BE WORTH IT TO BE THE ONE TO OPEN THE SUBJECT AND SAY WE ARE SORRY.

WITH WOMEN THAT ARE RAISED TO BE INDEPENDENT AND USE THEIR LOGIC AND REASON TO ACHIEVE SUCCESS IN THEIR LIVES, (Taught to Think Like a Man) there is an amount of pride and they find it hard to back down so IF WE LOVE THEM, IT HAS TO BE WORTH IT TO BE THE ONE TO OPEN THE SUBJECT AND SAY WE ARE SORRY, AS LIKELY IT WILL TAKE TRUE LOVE & COMPASSION TO SAVE THE RELATIONSHIP.

Love is so hard to find, trust so hard to build, IF YOU HAVE FOUND IT, CHERISH IT, IT IS A TREASURE GIVEN UNTO YOU FROM GOD HIMSELF. WHAT YOU DO WITH IT IS YOUR CHOICE!